Understanding the Empathy Gap and Its Impact on Cognitive Biases

The Biased Brain Podcast with Owen Hawthorne

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What’s the Empathy Gap and How It Messes With Our Thinking

Hey, have you ever noticed how sometimes it’s just so hard to understand how someone else is feeling? Like, when you’re calm and relaxed, and you try to imagine what it’s like to be stressed out or angry, but it just doesn’t click? Or the other way around—when you’re in a super emotional state and can't really imagine being calm? Well, that’s what psychologists call the empathy gap, and it’s a sneaky little thing that actually affects how we think and make decisions.

So, the empathy gap is basically this idea that our brain struggles to truly imagine or remember what it’s like to be in a different emotional state than the one we’re currently experiencing. When you're feeling chill, it's tough to predict how you'd react if you were angry or scared. And when you're overwhelmed by emotions, it’s nearly impossible to think cool and calm the way you do when you’re relaxed. This creates a blind spot that ties directly into cognitive biases—those mental shortcuts our brain takes that can lead us astray.

Here’s where it gets really interesting. Because of this empathy gap, we sometimes make choices or judgments that seem perfectly reasonable in our current state but don’t match up with how we—or others—actually feel or think in another state. For example, say you’re making plans to hit the gym when you're feeling motivated and energized. But then, when the morning comes and you’re tired and cozy in bed, your brain can't fully connect with the "get-up-and-go" you felt the night before. You underestimate how hard it’ll be to drag yourself out of bed, and boom—you skip the workout. That’s the empathy gap messing with your bias in decision making.

In human cognition, this gap plays a huge role, especially when it comes to how we empathize with others. It’s one thing to say, “I get how you feel,” but truly understanding another person’s emotional or mental condition can be challenging because your brain naturally filters their experience through your current emotional lens. This is why arguments get nasty or why people have trouble forgiving—they simply can’t "step into the other’s shoes" fully when emotions are running high.

Now, why should you care about this? Because recognizing the empathy gap helps with critical thinking and biases. When you’re aware that your brain has these natural blind spots, you can start questioning your own judgments more thoughtfully. You can pause and ask yourself, “Am I seeing this through the filter of how I feel right now?” or “Could my current state be biasing my perception of this situation?” This kind of reflection is a key step toward better decision-making and improved empathy.

For anyone who's super into understanding cognitive biases and the quirks of the biased brain, the book The Biased Brain by Bo Bennett, PhD is a fantastic resource. It breaks down these everyday mental shortcuts and fallacies that trip us up without us even realizing it. It’s like holding up a mirror to your own mind and seeing why you did what you did, thought what you thought, or felt what you felt.

If you want to get a grip on why your brain sometimes plays tricks on you and learn how to not fall into those traps as often, there’s no better time than now. Explore the book and unravel the secrets of your mind today! It’s an eye-opening way to improve your understanding of yourself and the people around you.

So next time you catch yourself totally misjudging how someone else feels, or when you find yourself surprised by your own sudden change of heart, remember: your brain is wired with empathy gaps and biases. The more you get how those work, the better you’ll be at navigating human nature. And that’s pretty powerful when it comes to dealing with everything from tough conversations to everyday choices.

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